LGBTQ+ matchmaking
Be yourself. Be understood
Your identity is part of your story, not a template for your relationship. Tell us who you are, who you’re interested in and the kind of connection you want to build.
Complimentary consultation · 30 minutes
18+years of experience
A personal approachYour goals set the direction
Start with a conversationComplimentary · 30 minutes
A SEARCH THAT UNDERSTANDS YOU
A personal introduction
In your own language
There is no single LGBTQ+ dating experience. Community, identity, family, geography and comfort with visibility can shape your priorities in different ways. A useful matchmaking conversation gives you room to explain those details without reducing them to a binary category.
Whether you want a monogamous partnership or a consensual non-monogamous connection, start with your own expectations. Share what helps you feel understood, how you want identifying information handled and what a compatible person would need to appreciate about your life.
IS THIS THE RIGHT STARTING POINT?
This could be a fit if…
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You want your identity and preferences understood in your own words.
02
You value compatibility beyond a shared community label.
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You want to discuss relationship structure and comfort with visibility openly.
Your whole life
belongs in the conversation
01
Your own language
Share your identity and preferences in the terms that feel right to you.
02
The whole person
Community, family, values and everyday lifestyle can each matter differently.
03
Comfort with visibility
Talk about how you want photos and identity information handled before introductions.
HOW IT WORKS
A considered path
A personal pace
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Introduce yourself in your own words
Share your identity, who you are interested in and the kind of partnership or connection you want.
02
Talk about everyday compatibility
Discuss community, family, interests, location and the values that matter in your relationships.
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Set expectations around privacy
Explain any visibility concerns and ask how photos, names and other identifying information would be shared.
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Explore the connection personally
Use an introduction to discover comfort, chemistry and mutual interest. Your feedback helps make the search more specific.
THE DETAILS THAT MATTER
Being seen should
feel like being understood
A person can share your identity and still want a very different life. Talk about commitment, communication, community and the practical rhythm of a relationship. The purpose of an introduction is to meet the whole person, with room to discover whether you feel comfortable being yourself together.
YOUR QUESTIONS, ANSWERED
A little clarity
before we meet
Use your consultation to talk through the service, ask about the team and understand the scope before deciding.
Do I need to fit a binary gender category?
No. Describe your identity, who you are interested in and your relationship goals in your own terms.
Can I discuss privacy around my identity?
Yes. Explain your visibility concerns and ask exactly how identifying information and photos would be shared before agreeing to proceed.
Is this only for monogamous relationships?
Tell us the structure you want. Your consultation can help establish the appropriate pathway, including consensual non-monogamy where relevant.
Can transgender and non-binary people inquire?
Yes. The conversation starts with your own description of your identity, interests and relationship goals; you do not need to fit a binary category.
Can my search extend beyond my current city?
Yes. Select the search areas you are open to in the application. Geographic feasibility and the proposed scope are discussed individually.